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My masculinity isn’t threatened…

Sebastian Martin
2 min readMar 9, 2019

My masculinity isn’t threatened…

When I like to cuddle with my girlfriend.

When I watch videos of fluffy cats and dogs.

When I cry because my heart was touched by happiness and awe or by sadness and grief.

When I look through clothing in the “women” section in order to find something for my girlfriend.

When I go shopping for shoes.

When I don’t particularly like soccer.

When I use body lotion that smells like coconut.

When I sit down to pee.

When I bake a cake, and clean up the kitchen, too.

When my girlfriend makes more money than I do.

When I like to drink pink strawberry margaritas.

When I buy hygiene products for my girlfriend.

When I smile in public when something makes me happy.

When I don’t drive dangerously fast.

When I play dress-up with my little sister.

When I tell my grandma that I love her.

When I listen.

When I express my emotions in words instead of actions.

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Sebastian Martin

Multi-potentialite / writer / artist/ coder / reader / lifelong learner, from Munich, Germany.